How to Not Be Broke
This is my first blog entry and I truly believe that success is a series of positive habits. Having an emergency fund is an important first step for anyone who wants to not be broke and for their relationship with money to be healthy and empowering. So, as I reflected on my journey, I realized that one positive habit - learning how to save wisely to build an emergency fund - is essentially the foundation of all of my financial success. As a client, I will share money saving hacks and money saving strategies with you.
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Even if you have only a portion of your emergency fund saved when you need it, that's better than having nothing. Be grateful for what you did have set aside and get right back to it. If your boss told you that you were receiving a pay cut, you would figure out how to live on what’s left after taxes. Give your future self the gift of a chosen pay cut and just start saving on your own terms. This is a great way to start the journey of how to not be poor. In my experience, a magical thing happens when people are intentional with their money. As we start out managing a little bit of money somehow more comes along. Luck favoring the prepared (mindset and behaviors) definitely comes into play here. There is a reason that most lottery winners end up in worse financial shape than before they won. Many people are not actually prepared to be in charge of their money in an intentional way. Most of us were not taught in school how to be a good steward of our money. Combine that lack of knowledge with a perceived windfall and as the song goes, “Mo money, mo problems”. Getting a solid financial education is a great way to learn how not to be poor.
After paying off credit cards, my wife and I talked a lot about what to do with the money that was previously going toward the credit cards each month. Let's say it was $1000. Rather than just spending that, we decided to continue the discipline we had established. Instead of directing the $1000 to credit cards, now that the cards were paid off, we decided to direct that $1000 toward building the financial future we wanted. First, we saved that $1000 until our emergency fund reached our goal amount. This ended up being more powerful than we initially realized. Not only did we end up with less stress, a sense of accomplishment for meeting a goal and confidence that we would be OK if something went sideways, but we also avoided lifestyle creep because that money had a predetermined purpose. We figured that if we could sacrifice to pay debt then we would be supercharged when we got to the point of saving for ourselves. And as it turns out, we were right.
We did a couple of things that were very simple and easy. First, we automated our savings by setting up transfers to savings accounts so that we didn’t have that money readily available to spend. Then we created nicknames for the accounts. We renamed our emergency fund account to Reserves and began referring to it as such. We found that talking about emergency or seeing the word emergency in our bank account had us thinking too much about the bad things that could go wrong. The word Reserves felt more empowering. Whether it is just semantics or woo-woo positive thinking who knows, but my heart races less when I log in to my bank account and don’t see the word emergency.
After funding our Reserves we began saving for our first home in an account named FFA (Financial Freedom Account). It felt amazing watching that grow. Although we had spent years at this point not going on vacations or splurging at trendy restaurants or even going to the movies (my wife’s popcorn addiction made it more expensive than just going to the theatre for a matinee) we found that it was getting easier to save for our dream of homeownership. Much easier than it was to pay off credit cards and save for our Reserves because everything we set aside was for a future that we were designing. We substituted staycations for vacations, eating out at trendy restaurants for our true favorite In-N-Out Burger and Netflix DVD’s for going to the theatre (we did splurge for a popcorn maker which has paid for itself repeatedly). Both of us grew up poor, so we were really grateful for having the option of choosing to act broke vs. actually being poor.
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